The
Journey of
Adjustment
Part II
31 October - 3 November 2019
Tartu, Estonia
We spend most of our lives
interacting with people in
one way or another, but we
mostly don’t know what it
means to relate. Whether
at the level of business,
social activities or family
life, managing relationships
takes skill and practice...


We dispel the myth that two halves in a relationship can make one whole, and we show you that if a relationship is to succeed, it needs two whole people.

Our biggest problems arise in our personal relationships. Because we have a whole heap of unvoiced and unfulfilled expectations, warmth and camaraderie become supplanted by anger and blame. We tend to think that a partner has to supply that which we ourselves lack, and so we often involve ourselves in relationships which are debilitating and frustrating, as they are based on sets of conditions and co-dependency, rather than upon mutual appreciation and sharing.

In this course, we show that Life is a most priceless gift, but if we are to savour the full beauty of this gift we must be able to relate to life. This means that we must develop the ability to relate to ourselves and to those around us in a meaning-full and fulfilling manner.

How Can I Find Fulfilment in my Relationships?

Life revolves around relationships. Therefore, to find fulfilment, we need first to learn a different way of relating – a way that keeps us in touch with our own values and our deepest aspirations. So often in our relationships we leave ourselves out of the equation – either by “fitting in” and not speaking up, or by removing ourselves from the relationship altogether.

Discovering the true way to relate

By learning how to put ourselves back into the equation our relationships can become transformed into true relationships – the type of relationships that grow and evolve as we grow, and that remain an enduring source of meaning and fulfillment. In this we must always remember that this is a Journey of Adjustment – step by step.

The Two Journey of Adjustment Courses

The Journey of Adjustment, Part I and Part II are unique Courses – for life. They are unique in the new material shared; in the way in which the material is delivered; the power of the material, the exercises and interaction; the international character of the participants. Because of the practical nature and tools shared in The Journey of Adjustment, you will learn again how to be the Captain of your life and your relationships – resulting in a life full of powerful action, ownership and meaningful relationships.

You will be guided to find your own insights through dialogue and practice, learn to see the other as a reflection of your own behaviour, a mirror that supports you to improve the quality of your relationships, by changing your own behaviour and thus yourself. You will learn the difference in approaches between men and women and the power that lies within that, including how to use it; how to handle your emotions effectively, stop compromising yourself and to grow from conflict. In this Course you will find the path of your heart, where you can be totally who you are. From insight to action!

Key Concepts in this course

In Part II we now go deeper into what makes relationships work.

How can you ever know what you want out of a relationship, or make your relationship work, when you yourself don’t know what you want for yourself?

We will cover concepts such as:-

  • The differences between emotions and feelings and why this distinction is imperative to know.
  • The importance of potential and how to access your full potential.
  • A deeper understanding of awareness and,
  • The all-important concept of the relative factor of awareness.
  • Exploring further the differences in APPROACH by males and females.
  • How to use your inner male to learn to hunt more effectively.
  • How to use your inner female to enter and to explore the unknown with confidence instead of trepidation and fear.
  • The rules for relationships that work.
  • Deeper exploration of the process of intelligent cooperation.
  • Working with the universal law of light and refection.
  • Exploring “mothers and little boys” relationships and how to bring them back into balance.
  • The art of listening.

We Believe

...that every man and woman should have the
freedom to follow a path with a heart.
To this end we will support you.

If you say you can’t,
we’ll show you how you can.

If you believe it not possible,
we’ll show you from experience that it is possible.

We believe...

That all men and women are equal even amidst our differences, for the
life-force bestowed on king is the same as that bestowed upon beggar.

Should you feel unworthy of life,
we will affirm your beauty and strength.

Should you feel you have nothing to offer,
we will show you the riches in your heart.

We believe...

in the importance of the individual unit to the
well-being of the greater whole.
In this we will uphold you.

If you fear the distance you have yet to travel,
we’ll show you the long way you have already come.

If you feel the burden of loneliness,
we’ll show you the joy of taking hands, heart and courage.

About Elizabeth Schnugh

Elizabeth founded and is Director of the Institute for the Study of Man. The courses offered through the Institute have been developed to give people valuable insights, as well as practical tools, so that they can effect meaningful and lasting change in their lives.

Elizabeth Schnugh – Seeker by heart and apprentice of the late Théun Mares, started her career as a Chartered Accountant. She was Financial Director of a multi-national company subsidiary for many years. As she reached the height of her career, and as her work brought her into touch with an increasingly wide cross-section of people, Elizabeth began to realise that her talents and fate did not lie in the corporate world but in helping people to help themselves. In 1991 she embarked upon a new journey, first of all training in the humanitarian disciplines, and then in 1996 becoming a full-time teacher.

Elizabeth has a simple, honest and highly practical approach in guiding people to look within their unique life experiences to find their own answers. This approach is immensely uplifting and empowering, since you will learn how to solve any problem or challenge that comes your way

Course Details

Where? The course will be held in sTARTUp Hub, Kompanii 2, Tartu 51004, Estonia.

When? 31 October- 3 November, 2019. The Course starts Thursday afternoon, 14.00 and finishes on Sunday evening with a dinner together. For those able to extend their stay, a voluntary post Course follow up meeting will take place between 14.00-19.00, Tuesday 5 November, 2019. It is highly recommended you attend such a follow up meeting.

There will be plenty of breaks with coffee, tea, juice and biscuits available at all times. The nature of the Course does not allow for set times for breaks. Lunch will be between 12.30-14.30, dinner will be between 19.30-21.30.

Cost? The cost for the Course participation is €590 including tea, coffee and juice during the breaks, as well as lunches and dinners. Hotel accommodation is not included in this price.

Accommodation: You can arrange your accommodation by choosing one of the nearby hotels below;

Hotel Pallas (www.pallas.tartuhotels.ee/accommodation-in-tartu)
Hotel London (www.london.tartuhotels.ee/)
Hotel Lydia (www.lydia.ee/en)
Hotel Dorpat (www.dorpat.ee/)
Hektor Hostel (www.hektorhostels.com)

For registration and booking of your place at the Course, please contact the Course Organiser at Contriber, Tea Lemberpuu at tea@contriber.com

To secure your place at The Journey of Adjustment Course, the full amount must be settled with the Course Organiser by no later than 15 September 2019.